Our first child was born in the spring of 1995. And our 7th child was born at the end of summer of 2014, and for a few months every year, our seven children span, from oldest to youngest, across a whole twenty years.
Our second to last child announced in the kitchen just yesterday morning that she has just over 31 days left with us — before she packs up her bags and books and heads to university for the first time. When your heart stretches to bring a child into the world, your skin thins, and you feel all the love and loss in the world so much more deeply.
“Turning pages is turning to meet a good friend.“
Then our girl, she’d grabbed a pen and sat down at the kitchen table and wrote it down:
31 Memories I Want to Make This Last Summer at Home
And I grinned as she numbered out her list:
- Read a book high up in a tree –preferably in bare feet
- Afternoon bookstore date with Mama
- Read a book all day at the beach.
“When reading is your favorite pastime – you enter into other lives and gain more time.“
She’s not wrong: Turning pages is turning to meet a good friend.
She’d looked up at me standing there in the doorway with a cup of coffee:
“You know what, Mom? Some of my very best memories of my whole childhood have been listening to all the stories, reading all the books.”
And I’d nodded smiling. When reading is your favorite pastime – you enter into other lives and gain more time.
Much has changed in the more than 2 and a half decades since our firstborn started reading books— both in how I parented, and the tools I had access to, as we raised readers who are always in the middle of a good book.
When you are always in the middle of a book – you are always between a rock and miraculous place.
When you are always in the middle of a book – you are always between a rock and miraculous place.
While our little Shiloh and I curl in to read books, she now, at any time – while she draws, or builds, or plays, or works away – she can simply says, “Alexa, read my book” —- and she listens to stories for hours, as the Alexa device plays her next favorite Audible read. Literally, she listens to audio books for hours every single day, as stories expand her world and imagination for all that can possibly be.
Not only that, but “7 in 10 (69.5%) children and young people said that listening to audiobooks makes it easier to understand the content of a book. This number is even higher for boys (71.7%) and children who receive free school meals (74%).”
The girl has a rhythm, a habit she pulls on like her own most comfortable clothes:
- every morning, she asks Alexa to read to her while she eats breakfast — often while holding the hard copy of the book.
- every late afternoon, after much of the whirl of the day and learning, when she’s ready for a reset and rest, she relaxes with a long listen to a whole audio library of classic literature – so many of them available absolutely free on in the Audible Plus library — all that whisk her away to imagined worlds and all kinds of fictional adventures that will frame her childhood with wonder.
- every evening, after her and I read together, and pray, and I tuck her in, she always then asks Alexa to read her audio books, stories always snuggling her into sleep.
To be between a book’s covers is always to be under a cover of comfort.
Even when we pack up for any overnight trips or hospital stays – she’s the one who always packs up her little Alexa device, to plug in and listen to her audio books, wherever she tucks in for the night.
“Mama, I just really love listening to words when I fall asleep… stories make me feel safe.”
She’s speaking my language:
To be between a book’s covers is always to be under a cover of comfort.
Like Charles Baudelair said, “A book is a garden, an orchard, a storehouse, a party, a company by the way, a counselor, a multitude of counselors.”
Some of her absolute favorite audiobook listens are:
Can count how many times she’s listened.
“If you look the right way, you can see that the whole world is a garden.”
“She made herself stronger by fighting with the wind.”
― Frances Hodgson Burnett
This one is on current repeat the last few weeks — she likes listening to it in the summer heat ;)!
“Laura felt a warmth inside her. It was very small, but it was strong. It was steady, like a tiny light in the dark, and it burned very low but no winds could make it flicker because it would not give up.”
― Laura Ingalls Wilder
A family favourite we all so love.
“In His arms, He carried a little lamb. It was tired and had laid its head upon His shoulder, and He was looking down at it with gentle, loving eyes… The good Shepherd heard its cry and He never rested until He found it, and then He brought it home in His arms.”
– John Bunyan
All of ours have loved this one.
“A dim notion was growing up in her mind that the fact that she had never done a thing was no proof that she couldn’t.”
― Dorothy Canfield Fisher
James Herriot Treasury for Children
This is one of her go-tos at night — this is the most delightful listen!
“He had enjoyed all the animals on the farm and often helped his father with the cows and calves and pigs but spring was his favorite time, when the lambs where born.”
–James Herriot
Again and again, she returns to this one!
“Take the adventure, heed the call, now ere the irrevocable moment passes! ‘Tis but a banging of the door behind you, a blithesome step forward, and you are out of the old life and into the new! Then some day, some day long hence, jog home here if you will, when the cup has been drained and the play has been played, and sit down by your quiet river with a store of goodly memories for company.”
– Kenneth Grahame
A five star listen in every way.
“I’ll always say my prayers . . . and if God doesn’t answer them at once I shall know it’s because He’s planning something better for me.”
– Johanna Spyri
A wondrous childhood listen.
“It is not in doing what you like, but in liking what you do that is the secret of happiness.”
– J. M. Barrie
I read this one aloud to all our children, but she loves to just let this one play aloud while she plays — steeping in God’s story throughout the day. One of the very best story Bibles, with rich truths made very accessible.
“When did God begin? And who made God? No one made God and God did not begin God has always been, forever and ever and ever, God has lived God never had a beginning and this life will never end.
If you were to take a cup and dip water out of the big wide and deep ocean you could dip and dip and dip but you could never dip the ocean dry. Your mind is like a cup and God‘s life is like the big deep ocean. You cannot dip the ocean drive with a little cup and you and I, with our little mind cannot understand God‘s life, which never began and will never end.”-Catherine Vos
She loves holding our very worn copy and following along as she listens. A must listen for childhood!
“You, Little Traveler! You made the journey, the Long Journey. You now know the things I have yet to know. You, Little Traveler!”
– Holling C. Holling
Can anyone listen to this series too often?
“No great wisdom can be reached without sacrifice.”
“Adventures are never fun while you’re having them.”
“But courage, child: we are all between the paws of the true Aslan.” – C. S. Lewis
Wonder is everywhere you look – and it’s wondrous books that train you how to look.
Filling our days and homes with audio books matters for a myriad of reasons, not the least of which are, as the Book Trust notes:“It’s proven that in households where children hear fewer words, their literacy levels at age 5 are lower than those who have been exposed to a higher number of words, impacting on longer-term literacy and ability.
But even more importantly?
If a poverty of imagination bankrupts hope – then a lifetime of depositing good stories into our imaginations enriches us with hope.
Wonder is everywhere you look – and it’s wondrous books that train you how to look.
And our last 2 girls and I?
We’ve made a date to make memories and get lost together in books!
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